Friday, August 14, 2015

Wait.

Wait for the Lord, be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.
-Psalm 27:14

My dear child,
Wait on me; and as you wait, continue to wait. My timeline is not the same as yours. You live in a world full of deadlines and demands but you find yourself constantly waiting in lines, waiting for your food to be ready, waiting for the next opportunity, waiting for that significant other. Waiting can be boring and it can feel pointless. So your world tries to offer you remedies to keep you from getting bored in your waiting. It is constantly offering you new upgrades and new ideas but before you know it you are bored and waiting on the next new thing.  Your world gives up if they don’t see results or answers in a matter of minutes. Your world doesn’t like to wait because it is something that they cannot control and they think that they are all alone. But my child, take heart, I am not of your world. I don’t grow tired and restless and I am with you in the waiting. What I have to offer you is far greater than anything that your world could ever give you. I have something for you that won’t fade away, something that will last. But in order to receive what I have to give you, you must be ready to wait. Sometimes you aren’t ready for what I have waiting for you. Sometimes you need to need to be bumped, bruised, tossed and molded before you can accept what I have to offer. Trust me, my child. Your world tries to tell you that waiting is a waste of time that you must be doing. But I didn’t design you to be like this world. I created you to be set apart, to look different, to act different and to be an example. So when you are restless and tired of waiting on the answer you are praying for, be still and know that I am God.
Love, 
Your Patient Father

Meanwhile, the moment we get tired in the waiting, God’s Spirit is right alongside helping us along.
            Romans 8:28 (The Message).

For the revelations awaits on an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait, for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.
Habakkuk 2:3 NIV


Prayer:
Abba, show me what it looks like to wait in the waiting. Help me to focus my eyes and my heart on you and not on temporary fixes of this world. Though it linger, I will wait. Amen.



Thursday, May 21, 2015

Your Turn

When I started blogging again my hope was that I would be able to update it frequently, keep you all informed of this journey I am on. But life happened, I decided to spend my time building relationships with others instead of staring at a screen trying to put into words what I have been experiencing. It is nearly impossible to tell you what has happened the last few months, and so if you want to know then I would love to sit down and talk to you over a cup of coffee and tell you about the ways that God is working in the youth in Northwest, Ohio. A month ago 95 students from 50+ schools were honored and awarded for being "ALL IN". This picture sums up the entire year. These faces are why I chose to do what I do. 

Last evening I had the opportunity to speak at Montpelier's Baccalaureate service so I thought I would share my speech with the rest of you.

I want to do something a little different for a few minutes and I want you to close your eyes(Now if you are reading this you can't close them for obvious reasons). And I want you to imagine what you were like when you were five years old. I imagine we can all find something to laugh at about our five year old self. And now I want you to think about the answer you might have given someone if they asked what you wanted to be when you grew up, you might have said a firefighter, doctor, president, astronaut, cowboy, professional athlete, batman, vet or teacher. When you would tell them your dream they didn’t tell you that you couldn’t do it, but rather they would just smile and nod. Because you see at that age anything was possible in your eyes. The stars were the limit and there was nothing that was going to stop you. I am sure there were many times that you used a cardboard box as a spaceship or would shoot hoops with an invisible crowd cheering you on. But as time moved on and you grew older you started to realize that maybe becoming Batman or Wonder Woman wasn’t quite as achievable as you once thought. That maybe you should start thinking about what you really wanted to be when you grew up because people no longer just smile and nod when you tell them you want to be a cowboy. And so you began a process of determining what it is you really wanted to be. (open your eyes)
When I was asked to speak to you, I was a little bit surprised and I wondered what I would have to say to you, as just a few short years ago I sat in your place. Prior to tonight I was given a just a little bit of information about your class like your motto, song and colors. Your class song “Hall of Fame” by The Script is what struck me and has been on my mind often as I have prepared for tonight. This song, a familiar tune about fulfilling your dreams, silencing the critics and telling yourself that you can be the greatest and when you do those things people will remember you. Well I am here to tell you that greatness lies deeper than awards and material possessions and it’s something that cannot be achieved alone. If I were to ask you to name the top 5 weathliest people in the world could you? Or what about the last five Heisman trophy winners? Chances are you probably couldn’t, you could maybe guess but you wouldn’t know for sure. The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. The answers to those questions I just asked are no second-rate achievers. They’re the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners. But if I were to ask you to list a few teachers or coaches who aided your journey through school I bet you wouldn’t hesitate. Or if I were to ask you to name five people who taught you something worthwhile you could. These questions were easier to answer, why? Because the people who make a difference in your life aren’t the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They’re the ones who care. Think about it, what was different about these individuals that made a lasting impression on you? These individuals achieved greatness, but it wasn’t a greatness that was all about them.
The greatness that was in them was put there by God. The truth is, we cannot talk about greatness without talking about God. You can be the best of the best but if you don’t have Jesus Christ none of that matters. Bobby Bowden, former Florida State football coach tells a story from his baseball career at Howard College. Allow me to tell his story…Coach Bobby Bowden dreamed of the day that he would hit a homerun in fact he was the only member of the baseball team who had never hit a home run. In a home game against Auburn, Bowden hit the ball hard, and, although it didn’t get high, it was a line drive between shortstop and second base. "It gets through," he said. "I flip that bat and take off for first base. All I want to do is hit the inside of the bag and get to second, so I sort of slide my foot against that bag as I’m going to second. "I can see the ball. It got through the centerfielder and the left fielder, too. It’s rolling, and they’re running and chasing the ball. I hit second base. I can’t see the ball anymore, and I look at the third base coach. He’s waving me home. I hit third base, and I start for home, and he says, ‘But hurry.’ Boy, I start running to home plate. Meanwhile, the centerfielder gets the ball and fires it to the shortstop. The shortstop takes it and fires that ball home. "Their catcher is squatted down and blocking the plate. I’m running as hard as I can. All of a sudden, his eyes start getting big, and I think, ‘Oh, that ball is about here.’ "I hit him as hard as I can hit him. I try to run right through him. About the time the ball hits his mit, I hit him, and that bull jumps up in the air. We scramble around. I reach over the top, and hit home plate. The ump says, ‘You’re safe.’ "It’s a home run. I’ve never had one. I’m so excited and get up to brush the red mud off me. The players come off the bench and start shaking my hand. "Then, the first baseman yells to the catcher, ‘Hey, John, throw me the ball.’ The catcher gets the ball and throws that thing to the first baseman. He touches first base. The first base ump says, ‘You’re out. You missed first base.’ "I distinctly remember getting second...and first, I guess I missed it. I was out. I never got a home run in college.” "Here is the significance of that story, Coach Bowden said, If you remember anything I say, remember this, as you go through life: First base is Jesus Christ. If you do everything else you could think of, to get to heaven, it won’t work. You must touch first base. "
In a few years from now, some of you might be discovering a cure for cancer while others are teaching and leading the next generation of young people. Whatever it is, greatness is possible but greatness doesn’t matter unless you touch first base. In Mark 10:27, Jesus was talking to his disciples and he said to them “Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But not with God. Everything is possible with God.” Dreams, greatness and success are all impossible and mean nothing, humanly speaking. But dreams, greatness and success are possible and mean everything with God.
You are about to leave a place that you have always known, a place of comfort. You are about to embark on your own journey, a journey that has been 17 years in the making. A journey that looks daunting, scary and a maybe a little unclear. You will no longer have your parents, grandparents, friends, coaches and teachers alongside of you telling you what to do every step of the way. Your parents can’t tell you what to do all the time because you won’t be around them. It’s your choice whether you make your bed in the morning or if you wash all your clothes together in one load or whether you get up for church on Sunday mornings.
 It is now time to make decisions for yourself. As Bobby Bowden said, “if you don’t have faith in Jesus Christ, everything else doesn’t matter.
I am not sure if you realized this or not but the world wants you to fail. There are statistics after statistics that say many of you won’t finish what you start, that you won’t get a job, make enough money, or that you will even lose your faith during the college years. Well I am here to challenge you to prove those statistics wrong, to not let the world define you and it starts by making your faith your own. It is time for you to realize that it is now your decision to pursue Jesus or not. The easy part is over. Ephesians 1:4-5 says, "Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. You have already been chosen by Christ, now it is your decision to choose him. The world is always going to be pulling you in the opposite direction of Jesus. The world wants you to have nothing to do with a God who saves and everything to do with a world full of temporary titles and month to month plans.
If you want to be the greatest, if you want to be the best, then you first have to choose the greatest. Choose Christ to be the center of your life. Choose to pursue a personal relationship with him, choose to make it your very own and not what everyone else says.
The scholarships, awards, degrees and promotions that you achieve in the coming years will mean nothing unless you have first stepped on first base, unless you have first chosen Christ. There are two lessons things that we can learn about greatness from Jesus. The first is that greatness was never about him. While Jesus was made holy like God, he was also human like us. He ate, drank, talked and walked like us and he knew that whatever he did was to bring glory to his Father. Colossians 3:17 says “And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.” We were put on this earth to manifest the glory of God. In each of you is a light, a light that reflects the love and grace of God. That light was meant to shine and not meant to be hidden. Jesus tells us again in scripture that, "You are the light of the world - like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Intead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house." You were born for greatness that comes from Christ, but if you don't allow yourself to achieve that greatness you are robbing God of the glory he deserves. Letting your light shine won't always come easy. In fact if you want to become great, if you want to become successful you have to force yourself to be uncomfortable. You have to allow yourself to be used by God in situations that aren’t always easy and that aren’t perfect. Success is the result of how you work and prepare and practice and how you strive to become better every day. It’s a commitment that the best make every week, every day, every hour and every moment. When you strive to get better, you will. And it is in our desire to be uncomfortable and get better that we are making those around us better too. Marianne Williamson says in her famous poem “Our Greatest Fear” this, “And as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” When others see us striving to become pursuing they want to do the same.
The second thing about greatness that we can learn from Jesus is that greatness is not achieved alone. Take a moment to look around you at all the familiar faces. These are the faces of the people who have loved, supported, encouraged, cheered and challenged you over the last 18 years. There are the faces of the people who have raised and molded you into the person that you are today! Jesus too knew that he could not do it alone and so he too surrounded himself with others to help him. He had 12 guys who stuck with him through thick and thin. Put even the guys closest to Jesus weren’t perfect. One betrayed him and another denied him. If you want to be great then you need to recognize that you cannot do it alone. So surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and the thinkers but most of all surround yourself with those who see greatness within you. Surround yourself with followers of Christ who are going to encourage you as you continue on your own journey with Him. Ecclesiastes 4 reminds us the importance of community, "Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble." These are the people who understand, they know where you are and where you are going. They understand and relate to the challenges, the set-backs, and the effort it requires to build or rebuild. It is a painful and lonely journey with no one to talk to or relate to. You are soon going to be leaving the community that you have known for the last 18 years but you will soon find a new community that will support you in your next season of life.
As you leave from this place tonight and this community in the coming days, weeks and months, go and be students, be teachers, be politicians, be preachers, be believers, be leaders, be astronauts, be champions, be truth seekers. But remember you were born with the light of Christ inside of you and by achieving greatness you are allowing that light to shine, but it cannot be done alone. The best make Jesus Christ the center of their lives and realize that apart from him they can do nothing. Go and achieve greatness…Christ-like greatness. 

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Afresh: in a new or different way.

I woke up giddy this morning. There is really no other word to describe the feeling so that is the word I will use. So there I was still laying in bed trying to search for reasons for this excitement that can be compared to a little child on Christmas morning bounding down the stairs to find a room full of brightly, wrapped Christmas presents. So I began a process of elimination: 1. It's game day but I have felt game day excitement before and this wasn't it. 2. I still hadn't had my normal two mugs of coffee yet so it wasn't a caffeine buzz. 3. I had just been offered another part time job the day before, but in all honesty I wasn't that excited about adding another 20 hours to my work week. 4. It's Thursday which means the weekend is right around the corner, but I don't get excited about the weekend like this. Nothing I could think of could explain this giddiness that I was feeling. And then the Word of God was impressed upon my heart, I was reminded of two verses from the book of Lamentations. 

The faithful love of the LORD never ends! 
His mercies never cease. 
Great is his faithfulness; 
his mercies begin afresh each morning. 
-Lamentations 3:22-23 NLT

My head began to spin as I tried to wrap my mind around this idea of a love that never ends but goes on forever. Forever. A word that my human mind cannot even begin to comprehend or ever understand. If that wasn't enough I thought of the end of those verses: "his mercies begin afresh each morning." The definition of afresh is this: in a new or different way. Now think of this definition in terms of the love, grace and mercy of God. Each morning his love and mercy is new, different than it was yesterday. We don't serve a God of leftovers, but a God who gives us his first every single morning. I am reminded of the Israelites in the wilderness as I think of God's newness each day. They were in their second month of freedom from Egypt when they started to grumble. Now let me be honest for a minute, I don't think I would have lasted even two days without grumbling. Sure they were under the rule of Pharaoh but they gave up a life of comfort where they ate what they wanted to and now they were in the wilderness starving to death. I think they had every right to complain, I mean I love my food just as much as the next person. Anyways, back in the wilderness the people were complaining to Moses that they would have rather died in comfort then starve in the wilderness. That is when the LORD told Moses that he would rain down bread from heaven and that each person would have enough for just that day because the next day he would do it all over again. In the evening they ate quail and in the morning the glory of the Lord appeared and there was bread for them to eat. For FORTY years God provided food for his people without failing. So why do I question when after a bad day that God didn't provide. If he provided for the Israelites all those years won't he provide for me exactly what I need for that day? 
However, just because God provided for the Israelites in the same way doesn't mean that he will do the same for me. His mercies are afresh (new or different) each day. Our God is unpredictable and it is when we expect to experience him the same way each day that we start to miss Him. Ann Voskamp says in her book One Thousand Gifts "If God didn't withhold from us His very own Son, will God withhold anything we need?" It's true, God gave us His Son, the one he loved the most to come and save us. If he gave us Jesus, will he not provide for our every need? But his provisions aren't going to look the same as they did the day before or look the same as the person next to us. Each day God is going to give us exactly what we need in a new or different way. I am reminded of a sunrise when I think of God's mercies. A sunrise never looks the same as it did previous day. There is always something different about it but unless we train ourselves to look for that something different it is just a sunrise. My prayer is that we would start to wake up giddy each morning because the love of our Savior is too great to fathom. Giddy because we don't know how God is going to provide for us each day and we cannot wait to encounter Him in a new and fresh way. 

Blessings.